Notes on Love and Parenting 
by Teresa Kindred

Wrestling with Sharks and Bumblebees
By now most everyone has heard of the little boy whose arm was bitten off by a bull shark and whose uncle wrestled the shark to shore. According to one article I read a ranger shot the shark and pried its jaw open with a police baton while a volunteer firefighter pulled the arm out of the shark.

Truthfully, none of us can predict exactly what we would do in the same situation, but when I read about this incident I immediately thought of my sister-in-law, Kelly. In my minds eye I can see her wrestling a shark or any other animal that dared harm a child. Years ago when a bumble bee flew down my son's shirt she reached
down and grabbed it, letting it sting her but keeping it from stinging my son. She's as fiercely protective of my children as she is her own. Couple that with her "I can" attitude and you have one powerful woman. She's powerful in other ways too. She's a Christian with a love for children that knows no bounds. She's the kind of Sunday school teacher that all kids love and other teachers look to for ideas.

What's her motivation? It's the same thing that caused an uncle to wrestle a shark.
It's the same thing that caused God to send His only son to the cross. Read 1 Corinthians, chapter 13 to remind yourself of the power of love. Then read John 3:16.

Mankind didn't invent love…God did. It's up to us to pass it on.

Praying for our Children

Last night I attended a gospel meeting at our church. The theme of the meeting is "Building Strong Christian Families." As I listened to the preacher speak about things that make families stronger and things that tear them apart I couldn't help but thinking that there is no family immune to problems.

No matter how hard we try to "Satan proof" our homes, he finds ways to slip in. No matter how much we want to protect our children from temptation, he finds ways to reach them.

Now that three of my five children are teenagers I find that I didn't know nearly as much as I thought I did about parenting. Yes, I knew about diapers, bottles and pacifiers, but the teen years are a whole different ballgame.

Today teens are bombarded with messages that encourage them to live life in the fast lane. Can the three or four hours a week they spend in church compete with the glamour of sin that the world feeds them on a daily basis? I think most of us know the answer to that question. It takes a huge amount of prayer and work to raise Christian children, and sometimes even when we do our very best things don't turn out the way we envisioned them.

So what can we do? Trust in God to lead us and pray not only for our own children, but also for those in our churches, our communities, and our country. Prayer is a powerful tool and one we sometimes fail to use. We shouldn't be afraid or ashamed to ask for the prayers of others. Not only can we help each other by praying for each other's children, but we can also share the joys and those sometimes-difficult moments of parenting.

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